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Sunday Gospel Comment

 

Alberic Jacovone OSB

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YEAR C

TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY OF THE YEAR - 5.9.04

Wis 9,13-18; Philemon 9-10.12-17; Lk 14,25-33

Dealing with our “hatred”

 Those we love most, we hate most? Today, a tough message from Luke’s Gospel is set before us. We ask: what was going on in Luke’s community, for him to apply such strong ‘words of Jesus’? what appalling issues was he confronting? Naturally, we tend to tone down the words of Jesus; treating them as clever exaggerations about greed. But they are not. So we ask again: what is Luke trying to convey to his community (& to us), when he talks about building a tower with insufficient resources or marching against an enemy, who has twice as many fighters? More important still: what is Jesus saying to us about ‘hating’ the very people we love most? What do we do, when the people, who are closest to us, impose their ‘shape up or ship out’? or ridicule us, or assert their power, greed & arrogance? If this is the case, what options have we? Jesus says: stay with the Lord, shun & move on. The message: First, If it gets to this point, believe in love, make your decision in conscience & live in peace. Discern wisely. Stay on the Lord’s side - support those who are hurting & oppressed (anawim); & resist all arrogant, greedy, ambitious  power seekers. Then, having chosen to be with the Lord, be strong, detached & quietly alert. It’s uncanny when people who are closest to us, do all in their power to bring us under their scheme. On our part, let’s accept any opposition as our cross to bear. Indeed every day, know that the cross is bound to loom largely on our life, as it did on Jesus’. Let’s follow the saints who opposed evil, but never fought people: for them they prayed.

 Crosses & Contradictions. Today we are told never to take lightly our Christian life and never to underestimate the risks of both leadership and witnessing. Luke illustrates this by two parables: if you start, either a huge project , as may be the building of a large tower, or a risky project, as may be to confront an opponent, with twice as many fighters as you have, make sure you weigh carefully, costs & risks, weaknesses and strengths, and stay brutally aware of your vulnerabilities and limitations. Then, pray and act and -come what may- persevere. Believe in your best judgment & live through the tough experience, especially when the ‘sward of division’ seems to destroy everything: what you are, have and stand for. Stick to the Lord, be prepared and own all consequences. When all is said and done, a committed Christian is one who desires to seek God in earnest. This will require a resolve: to live on God’s terms - to be deeply wise - to live as God would want us to - to walk on the path of righteousness - to hunger & thirst for justice, as outlined in the Gospels. Today we are asked to take up our cross, knowing that crosses are not vague stressful situations, but can become strong conflicts with people, who at times are nearest to us & we love most dearly. Jesus reminds us that as we love people, we accept them as they are, in the midst of uncertainties, feeling inadequate & in need of wisdom & grace.

All cultures recognize that the people we love most, we hurt most: we all reflect with sadness that between bridegroom & bride - husband & wife - father & mother - children & parents, at one time or other, one becomes the biggest cross for the other. We even tell the joke of the couple who, all their life were at each other’s throat. When one of the two died, even the closest friends could not understand why, the other partner was putting such a hypocritical act, by expressing enormous upset, hysterical cries & tears. Then a friend asked: why this farce? you never loved each other! And the answer was: can’t you see? we are doomed to be together like this for all eternity. Pray for peace among you.

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